It's no surprise that many men have difficulties with ways to be romantic towards their girlfriends or significant other without burning a hole in their pocket.
So here is
41 ways to be romantic without breaking the bank:
1. Write "I Love You" on the steamed up mirror while she's in the shower.
2. Give her a back massage with her favorite smelling lotion.
3. Make a CD or playlist with your favorite mushy love songs and put her name on it.
4. Always text her goodnight and good morning without fail! Or if you live together, make sure you tell her every day and night with a kiss.
5. Write a simple note and hide it somewhere she won't be expecting it.
6. Dedicate a song to her on a local radio station, and then text/email her with the time to listen in.
7. Give her a pedicure/foot rub.
8. Give her a picture of you, or the both of you, to put I her wallet and write "I Love You" on the back of it.
9. Leave a note for her in her car telling her to have a great day and that you'll miss her so she finds it before heading to work.
10. Go to a movie together, sit in the back row and hold hands and cuddle the whole time.
11. Wake up early one morning to make her a delicious breakfast in bed with her favorite breakfast food. She'll appreciate the effort AND the sacrifice!
12. Cook her a candlelit dinner and turn the lights down low while you eat! Make it an intimate meal!
13. Make two ingredient ice cream together on a hot summer day.
14. Write her an old fashioned love letter and put it in with the rest of her mail.
15. Make code words for the two of you before you go to a party together that you can say in front of other people - that code word could mean something like "I can't wait to get you home."
16. Place an ad in the classifieds section of the newspaper with a short love note or quote. Give her a copy of the paper with a bow and a note telling her what page to look on.
17. Help her out with something that she hates doing, especially when she seems overwhelmed.
18. Invent your own meal, something you guys don't normally eat, and name it after her.
19. Write a bunch of "I Love You" notes and hide them all over the house for her to find in random places (I.e. In her shoe, coat pocket, the fridge, makeup bag, etc).
20. Surprise her with flowers for no reason.
21. Hide a chocolate bar or her favorite candy under her pillow.
22. Create a hand signal that represents "I Love You." Something casual like a fist bump or a thumbs up. You can do this in public and it will be your little secret!
23. Play with her hair! Doing this while sitting on the couch will make her melt right into you.
24. Touch her frequently. Just a casual touch like your hand on her thigh or on the small of her back will let her know you're physically there and connected with her.
25. While out to dinner at a restaurant, get a dessert to go. Take it home and share it while cuddling on the couch together.
26. Set up a date for her, and plan out everything. Men like women to choose what they want, but your girl with definitely appreciate you taking the time to plan every detail out. Bonus points if you get her a new dress or piece of jewelry to wear on the date!
27. Cup her face when you kiss her. Even if it's just a mid day "love ya" kiss, really be in that moment with her.
28. Cuddle her in public. Nothing to over powering, but just a simple hug or put your arm around her will let her know you're not afraid to show her off as yours.
29. For no reason at all, call in sick and have her do the same. Spend the day watching movies or being lazy in bed, or whatever it is you both want to do.
30. Help her with her every day beauty routine - even if you're terrible at it. No, especially if you're terrible at it.
31. Start watching a tv series together, and be religious about only watching it together.
32. Tell her frequently "I Love You" and more importantly, "I Need You."
33. Pull up some couples YouTube dance lessons and try them out in the living room!
34. Commit to one day of kissing her every hour, on the top of the hour.
35. Send her a simple "I'm thinking of you" email, especially if you don't normally email one another. The different form of communication will be a nice surprise.
36. Create a rule such as never getting out of the car without giving each other a kiss.
37. Celebrate her half birthday with a simple card or small gift!
38. Give her unexpected compliments.
39. Have a simple picnic together. It could be in the park, your back yard, or even in your living room with candles!
40. Buy a bundle of bananas and write on the skins "I go bananas over you!"
41. Never let her go to bed angry. If she's angry, even if you're tired, at least give her some comfort in knowing that you're still there and that you love her.